Do you want to know how to stop watching porn and what happens when you quit porn? In today’s society, pornography has become more accessible than ever before. With just a few clicks, one can find themselves immersed in a world of sexual content. While many may view pornography as harmless entertainment, it has been …
Who are you? I’m an Educator, a Caucasian male, a husband, a father, a counsellor, a pastor, an exercise fanatic, a shame-breaker, a creative, an INFJ, the list can go on and on. Why do we need to give ourselves titles and define our identities? What effect can they have on ourselves and others? Moses …
God has this covered … in more ways than one. As my husband counsels people who are burdened with shame or struggling with relational intimacy in marriage and friendships, I have pondered the issue of hiding secrets. I went to Genesis 3 to read about the first time a person felt the need to hide. …
Ignoring our pain will cause us to become a pain – whether it be to ourselves or those around us. Sexual pain is one of the deepest forms of pain and often results in unhealthy sexual ways or thinking that creates even further pain. May we all start embracing our plain. It takes courage and …
To what can I give myself completely? What is the legacy I’m living for? The ever-changing and ongoing consequences of the COVID-19 pandemic have forced us to re-evaluate the purpose of our existence. One of the results of this purposelessness at this time, has been a sharp rise in the amount of pornography being viewed. …
Speaking of love , Ephesians 5 is our ‘go-to’ chapter on human relationships and how to love who. “And have nothing to do with sexual immorality, lust, or greed—for you are his holy ones and let no one be able to accuse you of them in any form. Guard your speech. Forsake obscenities and worthless …
The way we respond to and share our perceptions of different things, deeply affects the way we relate, and ultimately allows our neocortex to take control of or reptilian brains and allow us to become intimate. God made humans as the epitome of his creation, with mental capacities to love and be loved at a …
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The first earthly experience of intimacy that a child has is when he/she is held by his/her mother, and then noticed through visual contact. This is the first form of post-natal physical and emotional intimacy. Breastfeeding is a subsequent strong factor that develops intimacy, as the child is validated physically by the closeness to his/her …
Sexuality Matters with André
We will assist Educators, Pastoral Carers, Counselors, Parents, Children, or anyone who is interested in encouraging or wanting to live a Sexually healthy existence.